mental flexibility

I do not seem to have to much of this lately, This article caught my fancy, so I wanted to share with you.  ENJOY, I did
From Spark people
Be flexible some time about the things that you can. "Lighten UP" as the saying goes. We older American humans need to LEARN to enjoy, relax, get back the laughter in life. IF you think you might have become a little rigid or strict in your daily plans, these hints might help:
Accept this about yourself. Your take charge attitude in the past has given you many rewards. You have much success in your efforts of planning, following through, which is great but we need some more freedom also.
Can you compromise: Watch the fine line line that you might be portraying between being assertive and being domineering. Listen to what others suggest, accept some help, let others take the lead. This will help you feel more relaxed and less rigid.
Flexible Actions: (don't you just love these titles)  Let someone else take over some the planning of day to day life. Leave the dirty dishes till the night, forget about the bed etc. It's like stretching in YOGA, each time to stretch, your body allows you to go a little further.
REWARD: yes, here is that word again. You get to reward yourself for being more flexible. Since you are letting others do some of the daily actions, you might feel a little crazy but bite your tongue, walk away. "LET IT BE" Get a massage, get your nails done, go for a walk. Whatever is soothing to you.
FAILURE IS Functional?? What.!!! Remember,  Becoming more flexible is a WELLNESS goal. We are getting good at setting goals, so let this be a new one for our mental health.  Remember that you do not have to carry all the weight. Flexible actions every day takes some of the stress away.
Be in control, some of the times is really OK. Don't get me wrong; but when it becomes to much for all around, let go. Stretch those mental muscles. You and all around you will be better for it.
My new living situation is testing me every day. So I am taking this to heart for my mental health.
take care all and BE HAPPY